Ever since we moved onto our boat one of my biggest wishes was that I would be able to show my parents how it feels living on a boat. As both my parents are over 80 years by now, I was concerned that I have missed the opportunity. For the last few years they told us that they don’t want to fly anymore. I was so happy when they told us this spring that they changed their mind and they like to visit us.
So in October my wish came true and they arrived at Newark airport, where I picked them up. After showing our boat, we introduced them to our sailing friends with a fondue party at the next door sailing club. The first night went well and they still looked like they enjoy the boat life. The next day we took them out on their first sail ever, on our friends saling boat. The sail was very exciting as the wind was gusting up to 28 knots and the boat which belongs to our friends Dragona and Kjartan’s was heeling a lot. To all our surprise my parents enjoyed every minute.
After surviving the sail, my parents were ready to go out with our boat. The following day we took them on a river cruise to see the Statue of Liberty, Governers Island, Brookyn Bridge and Lower Manhattan. After the cruise we visited our friends Don and Pam on their boat to have a view of New York during our sunset drinks. Another adventure was the ride in our little dingy (Jolanda calls the tender “Ugly Duckling”).
The following week we took our boat up to City Island to visit two of our longest friends Alex and Noelva. I think I mentioned that they own an island so we did a little sighseeing tour. In the evening we went to the local Japanese Hibachi and next day we did some Yoga all together.
We also did a little road trip to Sandy Hook to go to the beach, it was a very beautiful day.
My dad joined us for our workout with our personal trainer, with 84 he is still very fit.
Conclusion written by Jolanda:
It was a true inspiration to have Marcus parents visiting! They embraced our boat life like pros. Got up and down the steps and deep steps. Got on and off our boat and even managed to get into the dingy and out well. They had the choice to stay at our friends place, but preferred to stay with us on our boat while we were on a mooring ball at City Island. Marcus Dad was invited by Marcus to go and see a soccer match, but he preferred to watch me racing during our yearly end of season Regatta instead. We had a beautiful time together and are so grateful they decided to visit us.
After becoming a proud US citizen, I knew my first business trip since 2019 was coming up on September 6th – to apply the normal way for an US passport…. I investigated how to get an emergency passport…. and to make a long story short. I did get an appointment on the day I was flying to Amsterdam….in Stanford Connecticut….lucky our friend Noelva and Alex live only 30 minutes from Standford and were so kind to have us the night before!
On September 6th we rock up at 8am and I left by 11am with a brand new US passport. I felt like new born. We had extra time to spare until I had to go to the airport to Newark.
The trip to Amsterdam was also a success. To see so many customers and partners after 3 years was incredible rewarding. It felt like a reunion.
On top my wonderful friend Ting Chris from our Singapore time send me a text on the day I arrived in Netherland (she moved recently to Holland) which inspired us to meet for a dinner – we saw each other the last time in Singapore in 2015. I hope that is a new tradition we started to meet once a year.
Another proud moment was that I rented a small electric boat and took one of my customer through the canals of Amsterdam. The boats are really easy to maneuver, but the canal traffic can be daunting.
All in all my first exhibition trip was a true success.
After Jolanda’s business trip to the Netherlands she came back for a few days and were were off to Berlin. I applied for 6 years for a ticket for the Berlin Marathon in the lottery, eventially I got lucky and I got my entry this year. This is the marathon I always wanted to run in my home country.
The journey to Berlin was a bit of a bumpy ride with a flight to Frankfurt and a train ride afterwards, but we made it despite all delays. After a bit of sightseeing we participated on the Saturday in a 5k morning run around Tempelhof airport (first airport in Berlin). Right there I could pick up my number for the run the next day.
On Sunday we had perfect weather for running, amazing people cheering and nice scenery. I started slower than usual to enjoy and not push too hard, that payed off as I was running all the way through and did not suffer at all. Not my fastest marathon but definetly one I enjoyed the most. Jolanda supported me all the way and ran a bit with me.
After we came back from our Camper Adventure – the summer started with me (J24 racing) and Marcus (sunfish racing) at Manhattan Yacht Club.
We have the best sailboat neighbors one can dream of and had the honor to do another sail with our friends Dragana and Kjartan and their baby boy Marco. Our mutual friends Alies and Roel joined us for a fun breezy day of sailing.
As you all know by now – we are crazy about our sailing and the more we do it the more we love it. This summer we wanted to experience different boats and therefore joined as well the Oakcliff Sailing club in Oyster Bay. As a supporter you can sail their sunfish, laser, Swedish 40th and Classic sail boats – heavenly.
The weekend of July 4th our neighbors Malisa and Todd inspired us to join them on an excursion to Larchmont sailing club. We started our trip visiting our friends Noelva and Alex in City Island
On Saturday we arrived in Larchmont where we had the honor also to catch up with our wonderful friends Jo-Anne and Raghu to celebrate Jo-Anne’s birthday
What a fun weekend – this will be a new tradition to sail somewhere on the 4th of July week with Malisa and Todd.
On July 15th we flew again to San Francisco to try to run the Napa to Sonoma Half Marathon – 3rd time is the charm. Our amazing Daniel we met while doing the Packard Convertible wine tour the previous year picked us up and showed us San Francisco from a different side and drove us to Sonoma via the coolest beer bar.
On Saturday we were supposed to run a 5K. I woke up with pain in my foot….I had a swollen ankle since months and have been in rehab and couldn’t run. Walking to the starting line hurt…. Marcus said let’s try start running and if it gets worse, we stop…. long story short… we started to run and the pain went away. 5K successful done….next day half marathon and I run it in 2 hours and 45 minutes – no speed record , but I can’t tell you the happiness I felt after such a long time to run without any pain in my ankle.
A wine excursion to our favored winery Frisinger and Packard convertible with Daniel couldn’t be missing
Southern California – visiting my client and having some fun swimming and hiking with my girlfriends
Long Island Sound It was really important to us this summer to explore the Long Island Sound and enjoy anchoring or being on a mooring ball and make sure we have everything set up so we could work flawless from our boat…. Marcus installed Starlink (Satellite wifi) and it was a success! We spent almost 6 weeks enjoying new Harbors.
Jolanda going in style to MYC Wednesday racing
Malisa and Todd encouraged us to sneak in with their rendezvous group with the Liberty Yacht Club and their trip to Jersey and Staten Island shores – Raritan Bay – read more on Malisa and Todds blog: https://www.sailingcerulean.com/updates/raritan-bay
I also have applied some time ago for the US citizenship and it’s official, finally this summer on August 14th I become a proud US citizen.
Thank YOU Laura & Raju for the amazing Indian celebration dinner and the cake ❤️
We also welcomed our first visitor since Covid started – our good friend Roe and her boyfriend and his son Damian
Thank YOU summer you have been so good to us. We will miss you, but cherish you for EVER!
Now dreaming to run a Marathon in Berlin (Marcus)….
Where to go next? Using our beloved Harvest Host App we found the next winery “Jewel of the Blue Ridge Vineyard & Muscadine Nursery”.
Marcus loves to push boundaries…. we didn’t realize how off the beaten path this amazing winery was….. and Marcus felt the gas will be enough….we drove, and drove and drove to the most spectacular view…..
When we arrived we had our own VIP covered Deck where we could enjoy our yoga, reading and working. This winery sold experiences and we booked a Muscadine wine lecturer lesson with a legend and owner for the next day. In the morning we went first for a walk around the mountain and then we got educated….. we never will forget how we learned to smell wine the right way ( 3 times and count to 10 between…), How to do cheers (don’t clink the classes….)
After we felt really sophisticated we left to find the next gas station…..the fuel gage went down rapidly ….. lucky 0 miles on the gage didn’t mean no gas…. but we were definitely relieved when we made it finally …. I think there was less than 0.3 Gal left.
The next destination was a new addition to Harvest Host called “Boondockers Welcome” which mostly RV owners offer to stay at their private property for free. We met the most lovely couple who explained where we could stay for the night.
Next destination was an RV park as we wanted to have a nicer shower and if possible washing. We ended up at the nicest RV camp so far with the most wonderful toilettes and showers.
Unfortunately – at night – walking back from the shower Marcus mistakenly confound a snake for a stick….. Marcus managed to take a picture of the snake and we were able to ask neighbors what kind of snake it was… a Copperhead poisoned snake…. he called the “Poison Control Centers” hotline and they advised to go to the nearest emergency hospital and in the meantime they alert the hospital that we were on the way….
We didn’t feel to pack up our camper so we took an Uber which was a bit of an adventure to do in this remote area…. Arriving at the hospital Marcus could have been half dead…still we had to go through the metal detector and got checked thoroughly that we don’t carry guns…. After that he was handled as top priority…. however he was told hopefully they don’t have to give “snake antidote” as this would cost $10,000….. a new experience for us to be told how much a treatment could cost….. lucky he was bitten by an adult snake and often it can be a dry bite an not much poison will be injected which ended up to be the case for Marcus. We had to stay for observation for 4 hours and then were allowed to go back home with a swollen foot.
The next day we went to Lake Gaston for a Sunfish camp. We had an incredible time. Scott the owner is an excellent sunfish sailor and teacher. We also had all wind conditions. I was doing the sunfish for the second time in my life…. the first day it was rather windy for my beginners taste. My heart was racing, but Scott was there with a power boat to assist me if I would get in trouble and calming talked me through how to handle my sunfish.
Second day was was even more windy, but thanks to the calm teacher I made it! The biggest challenge for me…. on the windy days I seem to end up with the sunfish with the short tiller and I had such a hard time to stay on course. The 3rd day we had less wind which I really enjoyed and started to get more and more the hang of it. On the 4th and final day it was so windy, but this time I had the sunfish with the longer tiller. Still I had a hard time to keep the tiller under control. I just felt I didn’t have enough strength. Marcus stayed back to take some Drone videos and pictures and despite the better tiller, I wanted to jump off the sunfish and go back on land….. I stalled the boat because I got scared and did chicken jibs. However before I could put my thoughts into action, I begun to be more comfortable. In the end Marcus suggested we do a race ….. I finally managed to position the tiller so I was able to control it beautifully and guess what… nobody could catch me anymore…. I was flying
Scott let us stay in his driveway with our camper for which we were so grateful as no Harvest Host or even RV parks were near by. Thanks to him we had great internet to do our work and enjoyed dinner in a wonderful Lake side Restaurant and BBQ at his home.
Next we were off to Castle Glen Estates Winery – they had an amazing Estate and lovely wine. We did a wine tasting and enjoyed their view in their backyard. We got to meet an incredible Harvest Host couple who stayed there too. They were 79 (she) and 81 (him). They met a year ago and started dating…. This inspiring story proves one is never too old for falling in love…. The best she was the experienced camper. She drove the RV and had it before she met her boyfriend and he had no experience camping or with campers!
On a side note she backed the camper below at it’s location in front of ours…. awesome lady!
Then we went off to Skydive Carolina where Marcus made 6 wonderful jumps. We could park for free and they even had facilities we could use. I did my workouts, yoga and self care with Luna.
We ended the day with a delicous BBQ
The next day we went off to visit our beautiful god child Lucas and his family we lived with in New York before we moved onto our boat. We had a fantastic BBQ in their nearby Park and enjoyed our precious time together.
We found on Harvest Host a brewery just 15 minutes from our friends where we could stay for the night.
Next we were off to catch up with our gorgeous skydiving friends Loreta and Raymond. We had an incredible catching up and will never forget their hospitality and the amazing food they prepared for us! We felt so spoiled. One cool side note, Raymond has an awesome Sprinter van on which he is working on to model into a camper. Luna was impressed and we too!
I’m very proud that we made out of Lemon’s (Cancelled Annapolis to Bermuda race) Margarita’s (Camper trip to Nashville) and had a trip of a lifetime. For Marcus it was great as his consulting job really started after we got back and I’m so grateful for everything he did for us….driving, breakfast, tea, organizing were to stay….and much more! For me it was a super busy time with work, I worked to make up most nights and of course while Marcus was driving and doing everything else.
Marcus and I both love the camping live style – we have done a few camping trips before….however our pick up camper is a 1/3 of the size than the smallest camper we ever used before…in the beginning it was so hard. Lucky we were able to move some things around, figure out how to have showers in our limited space and set up our offices – one had to work in the car and one in the camper so we could do our conference calls and not disturb each other.
Next…. we have to buy some folding chairs and work on some shading solutions and on top Marcus has a “little’ fixing list…..
……on the day we arrived back….. our boat felt like the most luxury hotel…..so big, so comfortable….., so warm…., so inviting…., so much beautiful space…. there are not enough words to describe how wonderful our boat felt….
Finally we arrived in Nashville – our destination! On our drive, I got us in the mood playing country music on my play list. Jolanda booked a nice hotel room with a kitchen and washing machine. It was about 1.5 miles outside of the city center and once again a train track behind the hotel…..
It was unbelievable but the hotel prices are higher than in NYC. We never paid these kind of prices for such a hotel. Initially we only wanted to stay one night, but we were so tiered that we decided to pay for two nights (the 2nd night was even $100 more expensive than the first one)…..
The first evening we went to our hotel’s rooftop bar which held a concert of some local bands and and had an amazing view of Nashville. It was funny that some bands were so young that the parents were also in the audience.
After we enjoyed a lovely dinner at the hotel’s Japanese / American Fusion Restaurant which was amazing delicious. We also met the owners explaining us all about their food. After we went to bed with our earplugs – hoping for a quiet night. Also Luna enjoyed the hotel room (we had to pay extra for her…).
Next day we were off in the morning for a sightseeing run to explore Nashville, we run along the river and through an impressive park, after we enjoyed our breakfast and a walk on broadway – a lot of interesting groups of people getting drunk before lunchtime.
We have seen many bridal showers and stag nights parties, but the party vehicles with celebrating young people bit anything we have seen before….
In the evening I came up with a list of the top 10 rooftop bars (Jolanda loves rooftop bars). The bars were nice, but mostly part of a hotel serving American light beer. People were super nice and we had some interesting chats with our neighbors. Jolanda was disappointed that non of the roof top bars had any live bands playing country music.
It seemed that we planned our trip around spring break and this is why an army of college kids took over the city.
In the evening the lines in front of the bars were getting longer, but we found a place with good music and nice drinks and stayed there for a while.
Next time we will google the 10 best small live music places…..
Nashville is a cute and upcoming city. We met a lot of people who just recently moved there, because it’s still cheaper for people who live there permantelty…. than California or New York.